Monday, April 20, 2009

Your Relationship Partner

Do you ever wonder if you're making the right decision with respect to your significant other? Here are a few questions to consider: Does he help you feel good about yourself, or does he insult you? Does he help you improve as a person, or does he hold you back from bettering yourself? Does he say and do kind and loving things, or does he seem mean-spirited or apathetic? Do you work together as a team, or is the relationship one-sided? Can you communicate with him without feeling chastised, or does the conversation end before it even begins? Do you LOVE him, or are you just in the relationship out of convenience or because you feel unworthy of something better? If you are having thoughts about your commitment, examine these questions and decide if you are in an honorable partnership or if you deserve more.

I am worthy and deserving of an amazing partner and relationship. I respect myself enough to give and receive love in a beautiful relationship. I pray and trust that I will have the highest and best romantic relationship. All relationships serve a purpose, and if this one's purpose is completed, I release the relationship in love.

Monday, April 13, 2009

When You Can't Change Others

Let's face it...the only person you have control of is yourself. So what do you do when people close to you insist on repeating behaviors that you've asked them not to. If you love them and are in a fairly honorable relationship with them, the only thing you can do is work on your own thoughts, feelings, and actions. First of all, consider if you are overreacting to the situation. Is it that big of a deal? Are you making a mountain out of a mole hill? Examine your need to control a situation and its outcome. Are you allowing the other person to live his life in a way that suits him? You can always use spiritual help during this time in an effort to gain inner and outer peace. Call upon Spirit and the angels to heal the situation in the highest and best way after explaining how you feel about it. Ask them to help you gain peace and surrender the situation to God. Allow flexibility and understand that everything is in divine order for a purpose.

I let go and let God. I am eternally at peace in all situations. I actively listen and communicate with others. I let people know how I feel in an honest way and release the outcome as necessary. I pray for guidance.

Monday, April 6, 2009

Put Your Worries in a God Box

Do you frequently have worries or concerns about situations? Once you've done everything you possibly can (in healthy ways) about a situation, you should no longer bear the burden of ruminating over it. Let it go and let God/Goddess/Universe/Spirit/Higher Self take care of it. Write your concerns down on a piece of paper. Designate a box in a personal space that you can transform into a God Box. Make it sacred and imbue it with the intention of beautifying your thoughts, feelings, and actions to help heal your situation in the highest and best way. Place power items in the box that have meaning and can bring love, light, and good energy toward your concerns. Use your creative abilities to construct a sacred space for all your concerns and release any worries to Spirit. Place your written words into the box, setting them free for the Universe to take over and handle for the greatest good.

I let go and let God. My thoughts, feelings, and actions reflect peace, love, and harmony. Challenging situations are resolved with a win-win outcome. I am open to receiving divine guidance and take steps to heal my life.