Interacting with Others

When you converse formerly or casually with someone, do you consciously think about what comes out of your mouth? When you're at gatherings or being introduced to others you haven't met before, you may be more attuned to your thoughts, verbage, and actions. However, when you're interacting with someone who's been a friend, family member, or significant other for years, you may not give the same conscious attention to the conversations. The reason why this is so important is because you can inadvertantly say something negative or insulting to the receiving party, who holds more of a bond with you than an occasional acquaintance. "Just picking" jokes or little white lies may seem comfortable to you, but, just because this person is in your life for a long period of time, doesn't make it right for you to break the "human kindness" rule. Consider what you say and do, and ask yourself, "If I say this to her, will it make her feel good or bad?" If you decide on constructive criticism, be gentle and kind, use active listening, empathize, and give examples of how the situation can be handled better.

When I interact with others, I consciously choose positive words and affirmations. I have comfortable, pleasant connections with my loved ones. I express unconditional love and see the divine spark within all of life.